{"id":84,"date":"2011-01-01T11:37:15","date_gmt":"2011-01-01T16:37:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/successrefresh.com\/?p=84"},"modified":"2011-01-01T11:37:15","modified_gmt":"2011-01-01T16:37:15","slug":"when-the-hinge-breaks-the-facade-will-fall","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/leesabarnes.com\/blog\/when-the-hinge-breaks-the-facade-will-fall\/","title":{"rendered":"When the Hinge Breaks the Facade Will Fall"},"content":{"rendered":"

I ended 2010 with yet another thing breaking. After dissolving my corporation, breaking up with my boyfriend, resigning from a non-profit board I sat on and seeing my laptop screen fizzle, my iPod stopped working.<\/p>\n

I bought it in 2006 as a gift to myself for ending the year on such a great note. The exact date was December 29, 2006. <\/p>\n

On December 29, 2010 while looking at fabrics in Fabricland, my iPod dropped from my hand and hit the floor. When I picked it up, I heard something rattling inside. When I tried turning it on, a sad iPod face looked back at me.<\/p>\n

The next day, I headed to my nearest Apple Store and when I explained to John (that was his name, John) what had happened, he shook his head and delivered the bad news.<\/p>\n

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“Sorry Leesa, but this is unfixable. Most likely, the hinge broke off and it typically has a life span of 4-5 years. So, I’m not surprised that it broke now.”<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
John whipped out the guts of the iPod – the inside that no one sees. He showed me the hinge which you can see in the image below. <\/p>\n
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“The hinge is so important,” John said. “It flutters back and forth to play the music, however, it’s also very fragile. Once it breaks off, you just have to get a new iPod.”<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Twenty minutes later with my new iPod in my hand, I bounced out of the Apple Store thinking about this experience. <\/p>\n
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I was shocked that on the same day spread 4-years apart I both acquired and lost my iPod. <\/li>\n
I was surprised that the thing that makes the iPod work is the most fragile component in the device.<\/li>\n
I was flabbergasted that even my old iPod was not allowed to enter my new journey with me.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
But most of all I realized that the iPod is such a metaphor to my life. The iPod shell is what we see on the outside. It’s pretty. It’s beautiful. If anyone saw my old iPod, you wouldn’t think anything was wrong.<\/p>\n
The same with me. If you looked at my business, everything looked fine. I had mountains of information products. I was speaking at everyone’s virtual and non-virtual events. I was hosting my own well attended teleclasses. All looked well.<\/p>\n
But inside the iPod, the hinge was deteriorating. It was slowly breaking down. Although it was doing what it was supposed to do, its lifespan was fixed. And I couldn’t see it slowly disintegrating because the shell hid what was going on inside.<\/p>\n
Again, this was similar to my own business. I was unfocused. I followed every shiny object. My goal was making money, so I quickly launched a products to pull in income. My hinge was my success and although it worked flawlessly, it was slowly coming apart.<\/p>\n
Once the hinge broke, my iPod no longer worked. It was useless. In my business, my hinge broke when people stopped buying my products and when my virtual and non-virtual events no longer filled up. My business had become useless.<\/p>\n
Although I wasn’t able to save my old iPod, I was able to diagnose the problem with some help. I then got a new one because my creativity is useless without my iPod. The music and content I play on my iPod while I work, while I drive or while I work out at the gym keeps me motivated. I had to get a new one.<\/p>\n
With my business, it could only be saved once I leaned on God. I put my entire trust in Him. God showed me that for me to be successful, I need to be in His presence. Ask for His guidance and humble myself as God directs me on a new path.<\/p>\n
“If you do whatever I command you and walk in my ways and do what is right in my eyes by keeping my statues and commands, as David my servant did, I will be with you. I will build you a dynasty as enduring as the one I built for David.”<\/em> 1 Kings 11: 38<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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