{"id":31,"date":"2010-09-27T09:58:29","date_gmt":"2010-09-27T09:58:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/successrefresh.com\/?p=31"},"modified":"2010-09-27T09:58:29","modified_gmt":"2010-09-27T09:58:29","slug":"failure-is-one-thing-regret-is-worst","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/leesabarnes.com\/blog\/failure-is-one-thing-regret-is-worst\/","title":{"rendered":"Failure is One Thing; Regret is Worst"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are 7 words that I&#8217;m getting really tired of hearing, which is:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;Why are you doing Telesummit Refresh live?&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In other words, why am I <em>crazy\/stupid\/dumb<\/em> enough to plan an in person event in a hotel conference room when so many are having a hard time filling their events due to the<em> economy\/terrorism\/elections\/other-events\/blah\/bleh\/you-name-it<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>I heard this from my dear ol&#8217; mom (God bless her), one of my Virtual Event Managers, one of my power affiliates, even from one of my mentors.\u00a0I know each mean well. I do. They don&#8217;t want to see me NOT succeed.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><em>I get that.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>But they also don&#8217;t understand why deep down, I have to do this.<\/p>\n<p><em>Failing is not what I fear. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>It&#8217;s living with regret that scares me the most.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I can think of all the things that have happened recently that I &#8220;wished&#8221; I did, for example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>When I went to England for a conference in 2006, there was this cute guy who was on my flight. I noticed him when we were in Toronto while we were waiting to board. He would steal glances in my direction and as soon as I looked, he&#8217;d look somewhere else. To think, if I had just given him a smile, that would&#8217;ve been the invitation he needed to talk to me. I regret not opening the door.<\/li>\n<li>Earlier this year, I attended a wealth building seminar with my mom. The presenter asked for a volunteer. None of the attendees had any idea what we were volunteering for, but I was ready to run to the front. My mom touched me and said no. Another lady beat me and she was given $100 for being so daring. I regret not following my feet.<\/li>\n<li>Not taking the swim test at the indoor swimming pool so I could jump off the diving board into the deep end. I stood at the side, scared of the deep water below and told the life guard that I&#8217;d try later. I never did. I regret not jumping off.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I don&#8217;t live with alot of regrets, but the ones I do have, they just eat me up inside. I&#8217;m constantly\u00a0reminded of what I didn&#8217;t do and forever wondering what would&#8217;ve happened had I done it.<\/p>\n<p><em>It&#8217;s better to have tried and failed, then not to have tried at all.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Believe me &#8211; I&#8217;m not hosting an in-person event to fail. That would be an expensive failure. I&#8217;m going into this to succeed. To go beyond my expectations. To prove something to myself.<\/p>\n<p><em>To live regret-free.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I know &#8211; hosting an event shouldn&#8217;t be about me. I should be answering the question:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;What&#8217;s in it for you?&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Right? Of course.<\/p>\n<p>However, it&#8217;s important that I share why I&#8217;m doing this. That if you see my cards on the table, you&#8217;ll feel better about putting yours out there. That if you decide to invest in yourself by attending <a href=\"http:\/\/telesummitrefresh.com\" target=\"_blank\">Telesummit Refresh<\/a>, you&#8217;ll know that I&#8217;ll take your investment seriously.<\/p>\n<p>That because I&#8217;m putting everything on the line &#8211; and sharing it publicly &#8211; that that should release your own apprehensions about coming to Atlanta in November.<\/p>\n<p>So, this post is all about the many reasons why I&#8217;m hosting <a href=\"http:\/\/telesummitrefresh.com\" target=\"_blank\">Telesummit Refresh<\/a>. Yes, it is about me. But in my post tomorrow, I&#8217;ll share with you why you must attend <a href=\"http:\/\/telesummitrefresh.com\" target=\"_blank\">Telesummit Refresh<\/a> in November. 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